How do you feel today ?

traptunderice

Dude, I'm not one who says these kind of things, but fuck that bitch because she is being a bitch. Knowing how you felt about her and she is like "hi, i'm fine. fun fact: getting married". Cool story, cunt. Idk how you feel about her now, but that shit is ignorant, if not malicious. We all got that one person in our life who we wish we still had, if mine sent me that message, I would lose my shit. I don't know what kind of a mindset you're in right now, but I would not let some idiot get you down and make you do something you regret. But that being said, I like you, guy and as someone who has broken up with ladies, I'm not going to go around advertising my current love life with each one. My assessment of her is that she might just be an attention whore and was using you for that all those years without actually knowing what she want or simply wanting you to show her attention regardless of what it did to you. And now years later she still wants that from you and I say middle fingers to that.

snake

emperorblackdoom wrote
Yeah snake, I don't want to say: "I told you so", but those types of facebook stories happen all the time. Remember that a lot of people that say they are great and doing wonderful are actually lying, just projecting a false image to comfort their own insecurities.

You know man. When she just popped out with I'm awesome I'm getting married I'm finishing school the first thing that went thru my head was , you whore! Haha

I don't think she was lying but idk. Her picture popped up and I was like wtf. I had forgotten what she looked like to some extent and she looks great now. Me, probably not so much. Her life is together. Me, not at all. Ahhhh shit, I can't dwell on this or her. She was always the girl all girls were compared to. I didn't need this.

What do you say to someone when they ask how are you? Should I be honest and say, well not to good actually I just got out of prison a year and 4 months ago. My life is kind of shitty but hey I made it that way. How are you? Nope, I lie and say I'm great. Nobody wants to hear my problems. I'm a asshole for sharing them with you guys.

Fuck it all straight to fucking hell! I was in a great mood before this.

snake

traptunderice wrote
Dude, I'm not one who says these kind of things, but fuck that bitch because she is being a bitch. Knowing how you felt about her and she is like "hi, i'm fine. fun fact: getting married". Cool story, cunt. Idk how you feel about her now, but that shit is ignorant, if not malicious. We all got that one person in our life who we wish we still had, if mine sent me that message, I would lose my shit. I don't know what kind of a mindset you're in right now, but I would not let some idiot get you down and make you do something you regret. But that being said, I like you, guy and as someone who has broken up with ladies, I'm not going to go around advertising my current love life with each one. My assessment of her is that she might just be an attention whore and was using you for that all those years without actually knowing what she want or simply wanting you to show her attention regardless of what it did to you. And now years later she still wants that from you and I say middle fingers to that.

She was always a mindfucker. So her doing that is fucked up right? I mean she basically opened with that shit? What a fucking whore cunt bitch! I think I took it in stride though. Well, not in real life I'm kind of fucked up at the moment but in Facebook land I think I did well. Idk man. She always was a bitch I think.

North_From_Here

snake wrote
What do you say to someone when they ask how are you? Should I be honest and say, well not to good actually I just got out of prison a year and 4 months ago. My life is kind of shitty but hey I made it that way. How are you? Nope, I lie and say I'm great. Nobody wants to hear my problems. I'm a asshole for sharing them with you guys.

I just wouldn't overthink it. You said life was great to her, meaning there was some level of guard on your part to not tell the truth. Had you been messaged by a woman who you remembered having a great relationship with, then I think you would have felt more inclined to tell the truth.

You were the one using your own defense mechanisms in this situation: and also, the control over whether it bothers you remains solely with you.

snake

emperorblackdoom wrote
snake wrote
What do you say to someone when they ask how are you? Should I be honest and say, well not to good actually I just got out of prison a year and 4 months ago. My life is kind of shitty but hey I made it that way. How are you? Nope, I lie and say I'm great. Nobody wants to hear my problems. I'm a asshole for sharing them with you guys.
I just wouldn't overthink it. You said life was great to her, meaning there was some level of guard on your part to not tell the truth. Had you been messaged by a woman who you remembered having a great relationship with, then I think you would have felt more inclined to tell the truth.You were the one using your own defense mechanisms in this situation: and also, the control over whether it bothers you remains solely with you.

You think she knew I was lying? She said how are? I said I'm good how are you? Then she went the I'm awesome getting married finishing school route.

I'm slightly confused by the way you worded that message. Please reiterate.

North_From_Here

snake wrote
emperorblackdoom wrote
snake wrote
What do you say to someone when they ask how are you? Should I be honest and say, well not to good actually I just got out of prison a year and 4 months ago. My life is kind of shitty but hey I made it that way. How are you? Nope, I lie and say I'm great. Nobody wants to hear my problems. I'm a asshole for sharing them with you guys.
I just wouldn't overthink it. You said life was great to her, meaning there was some level of guard on your part to not tell the truth. Had you been messaged by a woman who you remembered having a great relationship with, then I think you would have felt more inclined to tell the truth.You were the one using your own defense mechanisms in this situation: and also, the control over whether it bothers you remains solely with you.
You think she knew I was lying? She said how are? I said I'm good how are you? Then she went the I'm awesome getting married finishing school route.I'm slightly confused by the way you worded that message. Please reiterate.

No, she doesn't know shit. I meant you decided to keep you guard up and messaged her that you were great. Thus you didn't feel comfortable being completely honest with her from the beginning. Then she went on about her marriage and how great things are, which of course might be an act. But even it isn't an act, your decision to not go into detail from the beginning means you were wary about opening up to her. Sounds like your judgement was correct. You keep control of the situation as long as you maintain balance in the comparison between you two: aka she might be doing well now, or she might not, but either way, it doesn't matter to your life.

Adveser

Damn, sorry to hear that Snake. I wouldn't worry about it though. Don't beat yourself up over girls that never were.

I feel slightly disappointed myself hearing Angra have a new singer. Someone has big shoes to fill and judging by the Todd La Torre fiasco I'm wondering if whoever it is can actually pull it off.

snake

emperorblackdoom wrote
snake wrote
emperorblackdoom wrote
snake wrote
What do you say to someone when they ask how are you? Should I be honest and say, well not to good actually I just got out of prison a year and 4 months ago. My life is kind of shitty but hey I made it that way. How are you? Nope, I lie and say I'm great. Nobody wants to hear my problems. I'm a asshole for sharing them with you guys.
I just wouldn't overthink it. You said life was great to her, meaning there was some level of guard on your part to not tell the truth. Had you been messaged by a woman who you remembered having a great relationship with, then I think you would have felt more inclined to tell the truth.You were the one using your own defense mechanisms in this situation: and also, the control over whether it bothers you remains solely with you.
You think she knew I was lying? She said how are? I said I'm good how are you? Then she went the I'm awesome getting married finishing school route.I'm slightly confused by the way you worded that message. Please reiterate.
No, she doesn't know shit. I meant you decided to keep you guard up and messaged her that you were great. Thus you didn't feel comfortable being completely honest with her from the beginning. Then she went on about her marriage and how great things are, which of course might be an act. But even it isn't an act, your decision to not go into detail from the beginning means you were wary about opening up to her. Sounds like your judgement was correct. You keep control of the situation as long as you maintain balance in the comparison between you two: aka she might be doing well now, or she might not, but either way, it doesn't matter to your life.

I get ya now. I won't be talking to her again anyway. Wether she hits me up or not. She is bad for me. Nobody ever made me feel like she did back then. And it was never good.

huskerc7

people can be really annoying sometimes.

Goat

Yep, EBD is right - you have to trust yourself in these things, and from how guarded you were you know she was a bad thing in your life. That's a good thing for you, when all is said and done.

DevotedWalnut

emperorblackdoom wrote
Yeah snake, I don't want to say: "I told you so", but those types of facebook stories happen all the time. Remember that a lot of people that say they are great and doing wonderful are actually lying, just projecting a false image to comfort their own insecurities.

Spoken like a true cat loving basement dweller.

DevotedWalnut

Adveser wrote
Damn, sorry to hear that Snake. I wouldn't worry about it though. Don't beat yourself up over girls that never were.------------I feel slightly disappointed myself hearing Angra have a new singer. Someone has big shoes to fill and judging by the Todd La Torre fiasco I'm wondering if whoever it is can actually pull it off.

We're you in the running?

snake

Thanks guys. I'll be alright. I've been remembering alot of other shit too. Didn't sleep much last night. I feel better today. This girl was my downfall. Literally. But I'm a different person now and I'm a stronger person now. This shit will not effect my life, I won't let it.

Thanks for the support gentlemen.

Adveser

DevotedWalnut wrote
Adveser wrote
Damn, sorry to hear that Snake. I wouldn't worry about it though. Don't beat yourself up over girls that never were.------------I feel slightly disappointed myself hearing Angra have a new singer. Someone has big shoes to fill and judging by the Todd La Torre fiasco I'm wondering if whoever it is can actually pull it off.
We're you in the running?

Of course not.

Tribuzy should get the job. Angra would be dumb not to go with him.

traptunderice

DevotedWalnut wrote
emperorblackdoom wrote
Yeah snake, I don't want to say: "I told you so", but those types of facebook stories happen all the time. Remember that a lot of people that say they are great and doing wonderful are actually lying, just projecting a false image to comfort their own insecurities.
Spoken like a true cat loving basement dweller.

You don't have to be a basement dweller to love cats :lame:

<a class="postlink" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4</a>

DevotedWalnut

traptunderice wrote
DevotedWalnut wrote
emperorblackdoom wrote
Yeah snake, I don't want to say: "I told you so", but those types of facebook stories happen all the time. Remember that a lot of people that say they are great and doing wonderful are actually lying, just projecting a false image to comfort their own insecurities.
Spoken like a true cat loving basement dweller.
You don't have to be a basement dweller to love cats :lame:<a class="postlink" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4</a>

No, but it's EBD to a T.

DevotedWalnut

In the last 3 weeks I've had 4 tenants tell me that they are moving out. All on short notice, all gone by December 1st. What the fuck? Some sort of conspiracy at my house? The kicker of it all is they think they don have to pay me rent for November. Well, homey don't play that. They don't pay me, they have 24 hours to vacate the premises.

North_From_Here

DevotedWalnut wrote
traptunderice wrote
DevotedWalnut wrote
emperorblackdoom wrote
Yeah snake, I don't want to say: "I told you so", but those types of facebook stories happen all the time. Remember that a lot of people that say they are great and doing wonderful are actually lying, just projecting a false image to comfort their own insecurities.
Spoken like a true cat loving basement dweller.
You don't have to be a basement dweller to love cats :lame:<a class="postlink" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4NMoJcFd4</a>
No, but it's EBD to a T.

And to think, I was just about to tell you the big secret to your evil-tenant-leaving-the-house conspiracy.

traptunderice

DevotedWalnut wrote
In the last 3 weeks I've had 4 tenants tell me that they are moving out. All on short notice, all gone by December 1st. What the fuck? Some sort of conspiracy at my house? The kicker of it all is they think they don have to pay me rent for November. Well, homey don't play that. They don't pay me, they have 24 hours to vacate the premises.

Umm I don't think you can evict people on 24 hours notice...

DevotedWalnut

traptunderice wrote
DevotedWalnut wrote
In the last 3 weeks I've had 4 tenants tell me that they are moving out. All on short notice, all gone by December 1st. What the fuck? Some sort of conspiracy at my house? The kicker of it all is they think they don have to pay me rent for November. Well, homey don't play that. They don't pay me, they have 24 hours to vacate the premises.
Umm I don't think you can evict people on 24 hours notice...

There's no legal documentation been signed. They just give me money the first of every month and I continue to let them lay their head(s) under my roof. I want them out in 24 hours, they best be gone in 12. I'm very persuasive. I can be your best friend or worst enemy, the choice was theirs. They made their decisions and pushed me to the brink, well now I am pushing back.

after this next bowl.

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