dead1 wrotetraptunderice wrotedead1 wroteFunny thing is I've never treated anyone differently due to their size.
Just because you haven't doesn't mean that everyone up until that point in their life hasn't.
And that's a licence to behave like an arsehole? :unsure:
No one said that. But it doesn't simply end when the bully leaves. I was a 'fat' kid until my teens, and wore hilarious goggle glasses as well. Was I bullied? Somewhat. Did it affect my personality? Sure, I'd say it nudged me in the shy/asocial direction.
Would I have gone in that direction anyway? Interesting question, which I am not qualified to answer, but my best guess is yes, I'm not a people person generally. But to the degree that I ended up "not a people person"? Maybe that is where the 'nudging' of past bad experiences pushes people further, rather than down, certain paths.
Surely you've noticed that many 'beautiful' people tend towards both narcissism and/or sociability? Appearance becomes an internalized aspect of personality.