Desolate wrote:
rio wrote:
I disagree with Oscar Wilde. I can think of at least two women that I value as friends but have never once felt enmity, worship, passion or love towards.
Every rule has its exceptions. But really, I can't think of a woman being my friend. Although I communicate mostly with women and have a lot of female acquaintances, I don't understand how can I make a real female friend without at least one of us falling in love with another (i.e. she/I can love me/her, but keep it in secret). And this already isn't friendship.
It's possible, although hard not to feel lust of some sort. And if you're married, and in love with your wife, why not? Any feelings then would just be affection, like you'd feel for a male friend.
Sorry to hear about problems, BTW. Thanks for trying!