traptunderice wrote:
Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer, how people orient themselves and what they are willing to claim is really important for a notion of self-identity. Their whole lives they are taught to be not what they feel that they are so they're kinda particular as to what they want to designate themselves as. I respect that. Same goes for people who have a preference to be called black or African American.
What you're talking about is cultural values (or lack thereof) and not Orwellian "Big Brother" stuff which is what Adverseer was getting at.
In fact one could argue that the only Big Brother "thought controlling/brainwashing" happening is the government trying to reduce people's prejudices and promote tolerance and equality.
You might want to look outside of conspiracy theories and look at social values and moral codes and how they're created.
traptunderice wrote:
Just because they reach those statuses doesn't mean they were comfortable within them. A woman being CEO is going to be responded to differently than male CEOs and she is going to have to self-regulate her behavior to either play down certain characteristics in order to fit what people expect of her to be a "woman" and emphasize certain aspects to be "the boss". I wouldn't expect a white middle class bureaucrat to understand that.
My department is dominated by women (last two health ministers have been women, and one of them has since become Premier) so I would suggest they generally don't have to change their behaviour too much to fit into a "men's club."
In fact the CEO I worked under was known to be very ruthless and cunning. She didn't take any shit and neither did most of the other women I've worked for.
Furthermore if people chose to respond in a certain way to societal mores, that's their choice. Under law they're entitled to that. Your little Communist utopia can never exist because people always have prejudices. These prejudices can be racial, religious, gender, class, sexuality.
They can also be on trivial things as to how a person behaves, dresses or their spending habits (I've known people who have truly hated other people simply because they viewed them as badly dressed).
People have prejudice. Government can try to change this and sometimes people themselves change. But prejudice always remains even if it is hidden below.
Heck even you're clearly prejudiced against me:
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I wouldn't expect a white middle class bureaucrat to understand that
By the way I'm technically from your oppressed masses - I'm a first generation immigrant with darker skin from the Balkans. My first language is Croatian and not English.
Yet I don't feel oppressed in any way shape or form.