Zad wrote:
As George Bernard Shaw said, a person happy with their religion is no different to an alcoholic happy with the bottle. I think at the end of the day religion is an unnecessary crutch to people who have been convinced that it's their only way out. Not that there aren't exceptions, or that some religious people aren't good, but the average religious person that I've met (and I live in a place full of them) are stuck-up idiots. It's like being the only sane man in an asylum, a horrible experience, and I can't help but have a measure of dislike for people like that. Everyone knows someone who is happy because of religion - so? There used to be a retarded kid living down the street from me who was happiest getting behind the wheel of his parent's car and letting the handbrake off. Luckily for him, they lived in a cul-de-sac, but sometimes things just aren't good for people.
It is my belief that it is not religion that turns people into stuck up idiots, but certainty of any type, regarding especially the God issue or in other issues that can't be proved either way. When you become so certain that you are right and that everyone else is wrong and that it is your duty to force your beliefs on others, that is where the assholedom comes from. I know atheists who are stuck up idiots and atheists who aren't, and religious people who are and others who aren't.
And until you can come up with a better analogy for happiness from stupidity than driving without a handbrake, which can actively harm people, and simply being happy in belief and not forcing it on anyone else- where does the harm come from in that? Hell, it reminds me of the moral of the Mormon episode in south park: Yes, the Mormons believe in some crazy shit, but if it causes them to live happy lives and be kind to one another, who gives a shit as long as they don't? It sounds like you've had bad experiences with religious people- I'm not defending that type. But I don't think that turning to their level of behaviour is the answer.
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And this defeatist crap about how atheists aren't allowed to be passionate about their lack of belief because then they're just like the religious! Bloody hell, what RUBBISH. Condescending, wanky, snooty, bullshit. There's nothing wrong with standing firmly on a side and being proud of it, and people who don't are simply bowing over backwards because they're afraid of offending the religious. It's so isolationist! Do you suggest good bands to friends, or not because you're 'pushing stuff onto other people'? Do you suggest a good film, book, etc? Or not?
If you can take a firm stance on the subject, and defend your right to do so, so can they. But you also waive the right to bitch when they try to force their views on you as you do to them. I am an atheist; whenever people ask me what I believe, I tell them. Hell, I was on a Jewish trip to Israel this summer filled with uber Jewish pro Israel propoganda, and I proudly stated that I'm an atheist during debates and to others on the trip.. I'm not afraid to say who I am, and I'm not saying that anyone should be. However, when I state that I'm an atheist, I expect that others will respect choice, and I can't be anything but an asshole if I don't do the same to them. My argument is not against public atheism, but against missionarism.
And really, there's a distinct difference between reccomending someone a band and going up to them, stating that their world-beliefs are wrong and that yours are right, and that if they were intelligent at all they'd believe what you believe. Particularly, since once again, this is a matter of faith! Unless they're Biblical literalists, they know that not everything they believe in makes sense already! Either way, you're just stirring up a shitstorm to no purpose. Let people make their own decisions.