cry of the banshee wrote:
traptunderice wrote:
emperorblackdoom wrote:
noodles wrote:
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Stop assuming that the primary listener is a heterosexual male, and you’re already on your way.
I think I know what she means, but the primary listeners of metal are heterosexual males.
Yep. We could go even further to say that the primary listeners of metal are white (and I guess East Asian to an extent?) heterosexual males.
It doesn't matter about the actual composition of the audience. It's like when you're out in public, you should behave as if your grandmother is there. Nothing you wouldn't do in front of her should you do in front of other people you respect. Excusing misogyny just because women don't listen to it, according to anecdotal evidence, is loathsome. Oh, and Cincinnati's punk scene has a lot of females who are into metal as well. And IronDuchess.
Who is "excusing misogyny"? I must have missed something, because I don't see anybody posting anything of the sort, and the fact that metal is predominantly male does not equal "misogyny".
It's like you're just looking for a soapbox to get up on.
Songs like Fucked with a Knife and Rape Camp aren't really screaming, "hey women, you're perfectly welcome in metaldom". The author cited GnR as an example amongst countless others of imagery that simply isn't welcoming to women. It's one thing to write about women like JR Hayes does comparing them to black widows or serpents then the more obligatory misogynistic lyrics and images which the author also cites still making an appearance in metal.
We've had discussions of members on here not listening to Drudkh for links to NS but we've never had discussion of people not listening to CC for comparable messages directed at women. I'm not saying anyone here is misogynistic but misogyny just isn't being addressed. Being friendly to women at shows is a pretty bogus answer to solve the issue when there are larger thematic issues.
I'll stop since I'm being soapbox-y. I just thought the article was good and that misogyny in metal is under-talked about.