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Stop assuming that the primary listener is a heterosexual male, and you’re already on your way.


I think I know what she means, but the primary listeners of metal are heterosexual males.


Yep. We could go even further to say that the primary listeners of metal are white (and I guess East Asian to an extent?) heterosexual males.
It doesn't matter about the actual composition of the audience. It's like when you're out in public, you should behave as if your grandmother is there. Nothing you wouldn't do in front of her should you do in front of other people you respect. Excusing misogyny just because women don't listen to it, according to anecdotal evidence, is loathsome. Oh, and Cincinnati's punk scene has a lot of females who are into metal as well. And IronDuchess.

Anecdotal evidence? Right. Anyone taking bets on black females as the average metal listener?
Which is completely not what I said should be the point. Whether they listen to it or not, the music shouldn't disrespect them. Comparable to the racism of NSBM. Just because Jews or blacks probably won't listen to it, given what it is as NS, it isn't acceptable.

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traptunderice wrote:
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Stop assuming that the primary listener is a heterosexual male, and you’re already on your way.


I think I know what she means, but the primary listeners of metal are heterosexual males.


Yep. We could go even further to say that the primary listeners of metal are white (and I guess East Asian to an extent?) heterosexual males.
It doesn't matter about the actual composition of the audience. It's like when you're out in public, you should behave as if your grandmother is there. Nothing you wouldn't do in front of her should you do in front of other people you respect. Excusing misogyny just because women don't listen to it, according to anecdotal evidence, is loathsome. Oh, and Cincinnati's punk scene has a lot of females who are into metal as well. And IronDuchess.


Who is "excusing misogyny"? I must have missed something, because I don't see anybody posting anything of the sort, and the fact that metal is predominantly male does not equal "misogyny".

It's like you're just looking for a soapbox to get up on.


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I'm anti-misogyny and agree that dudes being friendly to ladies at metal shows would probably make ladies more conducive to showing up, but those aren't particularly dramatic/interesting viewpoints. Also don't think the lack of women interested in metal is because of misogyny, or that there's anything particularly anti-woman about metal.


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I'm anti-misogyny and agree that dudes being friendly to ladies at metal shows would probably make ladies more conducive to showing up, but those aren't particularly dramatic/interesting viewpoints. Also don't think the lack of women interested in metal is because of misogyny, or that there's anything particularly anti-woman about metal.


100% agreed. I don't think any of us are advocating any different viewpoints.


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cry of the banshee wrote:
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Stop assuming that the primary listener is a heterosexual male, and you’re already on your way.


I think I know what she means, but the primary listeners of metal are heterosexual males.


Yep. We could go even further to say that the primary listeners of metal are white (and I guess East Asian to an extent?) heterosexual males.
It doesn't matter about the actual composition of the audience. It's like when you're out in public, you should behave as if your grandmother is there. Nothing you wouldn't do in front of her should you do in front of other people you respect. Excusing misogyny just because women don't listen to it, according to anecdotal evidence, is loathsome. Oh, and Cincinnati's punk scene has a lot of females who are into metal as well. And IronDuchess.


Who is "excusing misogyny"? I must have missed something, because I don't see anybody posting anything of the sort, and the fact that metal is predominantly male does not equal "misogyny".

It's like you're just looking for a soapbox to get up on.
Songs like Fucked with a Knife and Rape Camp aren't really screaming, "hey women, you're perfectly welcome in metaldom". The author cited GnR as an example amongst countless others of imagery that simply isn't welcoming to women. It's one thing to write about women like JR Hayes does comparing them to black widows or serpents then the more obligatory misogynistic lyrics and images which the author also cites still making an appearance in metal.

We've had discussions of members on here not listening to Drudkh for links to NS but we've never had discussion of people not listening to CC for comparable messages directed at women. I'm not saying anyone here is misogynistic but misogyny just isn't being addressed. Being friendly to women at shows is a pretty bogus answer to solve the issue when there are larger thematic issues.

I'll stop since I'm being soapbox-y. I just thought the article was good and that misogyny in metal is under-talked about.

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Misogyny in metal is complete bullshit, while mainly males listen to the music I've and plenty of other metalheads worldwide know women that indulge in the lyrics. Also who cares if people get offended due to lyrics, it's their own meager sensibilities that deride the aural experience, if they can't get passed song titles like Addicted to Vaginal skin or She lay gutted or Slave whipping anthem whatever they may be, fuck them it's free speech. Have you ever thought about the fact that your pc bullshit, infringes on the other rights of those who create this music?


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Outside of goregrind / death metal, I don't see any misogyny in metal, so really, it's a non-issue.

Rap / hip-hop, on the other hand...


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Steve, you do realise that freedom of speech doesn't nullify misogyny, it simply gives people the right to be misogynistic?

Anyway, I don't agree with the idea that Metal is completely sexism-free, but nor is it the huge boys club some people make it out to be. What I'd be interested in is the reason why some substrains of metal are actually misogynistic. Is it because the musicians involved went through their entire lives being ignored by bitchy sweet sixteen types they really wanted to fuck?

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Are you kidding me? More women listen to the Pet Shop Boys than Metal and that is saying something considering their audience is gay men and straight men who have horrible production-centric tastes in music.

I wanted to stop by and ask why this thread has not been pinned/stickied. Why not?

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Steve, you do realise that freedom of speech doesn't nullify misogyny, it simply gives people the right to be misogynistic?

Anyway, I don't agree with the idea that Metal is completely sexism-free, but nor is it the huge boys club some people make it out to be. What I'd be interested in is the reason why some substrains of metal are actually misogynistic. Is it because the musicians involved went through their entire lives being ignored by bitchy sweet sixteen types they really wanted to fuck?


Do you like when women act stupid in front of you?


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Steve, you do realise that freedom of speech doesn't nullify misogyny, it simply gives people the right to be misogynistic?

Anyway, I don't agree with the idea that Metal is completely sexism-free, but nor is it the huge boys club some people make it out to be. What I'd be interested in is the reason why some substrains of metal are actually misogynistic. Is it because the musicians involved went through their entire lives being ignored by bitchy sweet sixteen types they really wanted to fuck?


Do you like when women act stupid in front of you?


If they're hot, it turns me on. Funnily enough if they're hot and act stupid in bed it annoys me.

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I wanted to stop by and ask why this thread has not been pinned/stickied. Why not?


Hm, good question. I suppose I like the unofficial nature of it, just a thread to park random thoughts and links. Giving it official status would spoil it in a way, normalise spontaneity.

Or so it seems to me, anyway. If enough people want it stickey'd, it can be done.


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No need to sticky it, it's always on the first page anyway.

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I wanted to stop by and ask why this thread has not been pinned/stickied. Why not?


Hm, good question. I suppose I like the unofficial nature of it, just a thread to park random thoughts and links. Giving it official status would spoil it in a way, normalise spontaneity.

Or so it seems to me, anyway. If enough people want it stickey'd, it can be done.


completely agreed. right now there's a more or less serious discussion going on, but normally it's just fun and games. make it sticky and it'll be as cool as the funny internet video thread... which i never follow.

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Do you like when women act stupid in front of you?[/quote
If they're hot, it turns me on.
that's kinda fucking repulsive. its the inverse for me.

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I wanted to stop by and ask why this thread has not been pinned/stickied. Why not?


Hm, good question. I suppose I like the unofficial nature of it, just a thread to park random thoughts and links. Giving it official status would spoil it in a way, normalise spontaneity.

Or so it seems to me, anyway. If enough people want it stickey'd, it can be done.


completely agreed. right now there's a more or less serious discussion going on, but normally it's just fun and games. make it sticky and it'll be as cool as the funny internet video thread... which i never follow.


Sounds good to me guys.

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Outside of goregrind / death metal.


And in death metal it isn't very prevalent.


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I wanted to stop by and ask why this thread has not been pinned/stickied. Why not?


Hm, good question. I suppose I like the unofficial nature of it, just a thread to park random thoughts and links. Giving it official status would spoil it in a way, normalise spontaneity.

Or so it seems to me, anyway. If enough people want it stickey'd, it can be done.


completely agreed. right now there's a more or less serious discussion going on, but normally it's just fun and games. make it sticky and it'll be as cool as the funny internet video thread... which i never follow.


Sounds good to me guys.


Maybe I should turn the question around - should the random video thread be unstuck?


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yay, i say.

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