My situation:
My lady friend and I have so many things in common. So many shared emotions and rationale that we can share and enjoy. So much chemistry and comfort that we both share. So much joy and happiness that streams from being together.
The problem:
She wants everything at once. She is an assistant manager at a coffee shop. So she works full-time. She's going to school part time. She will start full-time next semester at a new college in town. She wants her social life and really fears and is extremely insecure about losing her opportunities if she starts a serious relationship with me.
My acceptance:
I know things might not work out. She's 22 and I'm 27. She is going to an extremely slow progressive nature in her realization of what she really wants in her life. A serious relationship? Her career as social-worker? Hanging out with her girl friends?
My knowledge:
I have told her that she can have all of that and still be with me and commit. She hasn't really realized that and its not going to be an over-night decision for her to make.
My question:
Nothing much. My intuition tells me what she will say. She really likes me and I feel the same way. Whatcha all think?
My sorrow:
She will choose otherwise.